One day evening at 11:30 I was so tired and want to sleep, but when I was coming to my room my room mate playing music really loudly and chatting with some one on Internet as usual. It is a very obvious that I can't sleep in this environment. So, I decide to read some material on my computer and start to open my computer; at the same time, after one months patience later first time I asked him to put head set on his ear, because I was really can't stand it.
The dialog is like this:
_Could you please use your head set?
After my question he just turned back and looked me in strange eyes and said:
_But you also want to use computer?
I was very surprised with this answer and don't know how to answer.So I said openly:
_But I don't want to listen that.
Then, he said :
_There are some thing in my ear.So, it was bad for it.
Once again, I am surprised very very...much.
_If you have a problem on your ear don't listen any music and take a rest of your ear it is good for it.
Then, he just stopped.
In my opinion, it was really stupid and selfish thinking (Actually, He don't know what selfish is? He only understand the literal definition on wikipedia. ). In his mind every people must have same habit with him, every person should like same type of music, every individual around him must give him to a detail report of their thinking and action,................................................
We have a living room and kitchen for use if we need, but he only study these places during the day time and very very reirly during the night. At 12 PM or 2 AM he do all things even I was sleeping. He doesn't care. Come in and come out , singing, reading(with sound) or surfing and also music as well are the regular thing he prefer to do after 12 PM (mid night).
I am really lucky, I have such a nice room mate!!! God will give him a "good health"!!!
Saturday, March 14, 2009
"Nice" room-mate
Friday, February 6, 2009
What a stupid people they are!!!
No offence for protagonist of this post if he or she will read it, but I am a little pissed off........
Today, I received Emails from dumbs who study with me. It was very suprised me since I never imagine they will think like that. It was very funny and ridiculous. Acording to that rubbish mails I had keeping secrets from them with my fiancee.
I was relly amased because I had doing my own study with my fiancee at our office or at library. Since we both are quite person and used to study quitely at school we do not talk too much or play any music like them. So, some times for the purpose of avoiding noise we both went out some other places quiter. Actually, we don't want to went out since our office is so cosy and we have some other benefits there. Because of our life manner and don't want disturb others like they did, we try to keep quite when we talk each other; but in the end this carefulness become keeping secret and distance. I had seen many people in my life but not like them. Now, I had seen them also.
If the thinking of others and trying to be quite is called "keeping secret" , what word we will use for describe a two or more people quitely chating at home and stopped after you came?????
It is very very very ridiculous !!!! Until now, we are doing anything openly, specially my sweet heart; it is a fact proved by our life. I think there is no need to explain this to these dumbs.
I am very suprised with "I strongly recommend you do a thorough self-questioning.". This is the most ridiculous word I had ever learned from him. That is actually recomendation for him, but now.......
They, specially the person whome write that nice word must learn little respect to other peoples life style, must know everyone have different taste for music and movie, and must learn little appreciation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nowadays, every college students who knows computer can able to check some terms from Internet, more specifically from wikipedia. So, it is wasting our time to sending a bullshit from internet. I recomend these people to think more than other people do before write. I also recomend that little boy that if you want to refer please use some other source, and don't persist to the literal defenition. You had writed like that "WE DIDN'T PUT OUR NEEDS ABOVE YOURS" , had you only saw "NEEDS" from your so called definition??? Look and think carefully,that term has many defenitions. The shit you STRONGLY indicate is only one aspect very obvious.
He wrought to my honey like that "M (Here might be my name, but it written in very wrong way. Maybe he want to irritate my angel or want to express his anger in this manner ) have been studying here more than 1 year, and he used to take this course,he knows more than us, if you really wanna take that course, I think it is really easy and don't take too much time to check the schedule online, or more easily". It had remind me another thing relatid to him: Once I had find a little problem with one type of vedio file and I asked him dose he know any software can play such kind of file. For this he wrought me like that "you could find it from GOOGLE." . That time I asked him because I think he graduated computer science and know something nice. But who could guess such a good answer from him. You should tell if you don't know or have no time,there is nothing to bother.
Do you think everyone like you have strong interest for eavesdrop??? I would like to inform you that me and fiancee have no such kind of habbit. We don't know your or you people's plan unless tells us. So it is a nonsense to say you people planeed it long time or short time in the office or somewhere else.
How do you know my girl haven't tell her interest to your "girlfriend"? She told many times to your be loved person. Even she didn't express her intention, and even she want to leave soon; you people should ask her, if you people really want to communicate with us.
You said we kept distance from you, but I say actually you did. You and your "girl" already spoiled our life style. Have you even concern me once when I was at home???? I indicate exactly three times that I couldn't sleep if the lights and music on, but you didn't listen. In the end, for won't offend you I try to stay at school at late as possible and sleep around 2-3 PM . Have you ever " did a thorough self-questioning." insteed of recomend to my life and me?????
You are right I know more than you people about that thing, I also know it won't take toooooooooo looooong time if we check it online. You are very smart!!! But we made this mistake all because we think stupidly that you people try to manage it and will inform if there is any possibility to do that. We forgot to you people are not our friend or relatives who care us. Actually, we are so stupid and fullish since we thought like that. In last term I try to apply some extra courses and tell it to my inmate, even that time I had bring the application form to him. I had told you many times about your programme even you don't willing to. I told my experience and my thoughts about the school and further studying. Even I didn't vist my professor randomly I am hundred person sure that none of you will be here since my inmate stopped long time ago. Now I think I am a number one stupid, I shouldn't do these stupid things in that time!!!! I was really contrite for that!!!
What a person you are ? you wrought "some of you said it was wasting time",Did I told you like that? You have a really "strong" memory. I said before : Since my language skill is limited so I want to keep my time and concentrate on English and my major subjects. Now you translate it in different way. Thank you for the "reminder" !
Keep one thing in your mind in your later life: any language in this universe are so usefull and important, try to learn more if you can !!!
"Is that thing this big to write a special email to hurt our feelings?" . How big your feeling hearted with that "special email"??? If you think it is not big deal why are you wrought my darling such a long bullshit?
Even you wouldn't ask me "Did you ever think about whose fault this is? " We had already asked ourselves maney times.
" that Did you ever question yourself about what is going on here?" . I am suprised with this line. Are you a human being, do you have a brain? when you write that line have your face become red and heated up??? You should ask it yourself first????
"seems like you wanna keep some distance from us, I don't know why, and I don't know what do you think either.. ". As I said before we prefer peaceful environment, not a cacophny. For that reason we abandon cosy office and went out somewhere alse. When we are at the office we also try to keep silence ,but now you boy said like that. Funny!!! If you know all my sweet hearts action and thinking what is our difference??? Stupid!!!
"Your girl" had told my darling many times that you have a infectious hepatitis B, but you haven't told us until now, why??? She said you afraid with that, is that a reason??? If you are such a honest and kind person why don't tell us ???
Actually, this is not a big deal as like you said; but you, your "girl" and other scratch some bullshit to heart my darling so much. You even mentioned something else not related to the latter but buried in your heart. So, I am writing this "bullshit" since I can't stand for these letters.
What a funny bitc (Ajig) you are? I don't refer old just two days ago when my angel coming back from school you coming out to the hallway and start to interrogative her don't even waite to my agle take her shoes off. Why don't you tell yourself these "beautiful words" ??? Do you think my angel is weak for say nothing for your tease??? I have recomendation for you bitc_ Write these sentence on piece of paper and keep it everyday where ever you go since you are the person like to interrogate!!!
By the way, bitc (Ajig) I tell you one thing if you want to talk on religion or ethnic groups find some one else. Because you have no such credity!!! I don't want to talk on this more, before you say bitc look your action. Steal, take some peoples belongings without permition, lie and spreding rumor all are bad, after correct all , than come to her or others for talk!!!!! You know what bitc? I buy meat and some other things for my small but sweat family, so if you want to know where we buy meat just ask me bitc. Don't guess or ask from my darling, OK, bitc!!! If you want to buy a halal meat or some other stuff just go to ABDUS. We never bought from other places. Is it clear bitc??? I hope you bitc stop to agitate and tease my sweety, keep in your mind I had already riched my limits!!!!
Friday, January 30, 2009
Could I Have This Kiss Forever, text
Enrique Iglesias
Over and over I look in your eyes
You are all I desire
You have captured me
I want to hold you
I want to be close to you
I never want to let go
I wish that this night would never end
I need to know
Could I hold you for a lifetime
Could I look into your eyes
Could I have this night to share this night together
Could I hold you close beside me
Could I hold you for all time
Could I could I have this kiss forever
Could I could I have this kiss forever, forever
Over and over I've dreamed of this night
Now you're here by my side
You are next to me
I want to hold you and touch you and taste you
And make you want no one but me
I wish that this kiss could never end
Oh baby please
Could I hold you for a lifetime
Could I look into your eyes
Could I have this night to share this night together
Could I hold you close beside me
could I hole you for all time
Could I could I have this kiss forever
Could I could I have this kiss forever, forever
I don't want any night to go by
Without you by my side
I just want all my days
Spend being next to you
Lived for just loving you
And baby, oh by the way
Could I hold you for a lifetime
Could I look into your eyes
Could I have this night to share this night together
Could I hold you close beside me
Could I hold you for all time
Could I could I have this kiss forever
Could I could I have this kiss forever, forever...
Lucky Star
I Like this song very much!
Play it in youtube
Joana Zimmer
Can't you see you are?
The one I'm always thinking of.
In my Dreams you are already mine.
If you show me love,
I promise I'll be there for sure,
I would stay forever by your side.
Look at me now!
Can’t you see all the love in my eyes,
And will you give it a try.
Will you be my lucky star?
Be the one to show me who you are
will you guide me through the nights
be my every shining light,
will you be my lucky star?
Be the one to show me who you are,
Cause I know this could be love,
Shining on my heart.
wu...m...
What if I would tell
exactly how I feel for you.
Would you oh would you let me down,
look at me now.
Will you give this love a try
I got nothing to hide.
Will you be my lucky star?
Be the one to show me who you are
will you guide me through the nights
be my every shining light
will you be my lucky star
Be the one to show me who you are,
cause I know this could be love,
shining on my heart.
m...
ho...ye...
Look at me now!
can't you see all the love in my eyes?
will you give it a try...
Will you be my lucky star?
Be the one to show me who you are
will you guide me through the nights
be my every shining light,
will you be my lucky star?
Be the one to show me who you are,
cause I know this could be love,
shining on my heart.
Tropic Thunder
I just watched this movie on my computer. It is a comedy film directed, written and produced by Ben Stiller. It is about a bunch of actors sent to jungle near to golden triangle for continues to produce a failed expensive war movie. Accidentally after director of that movie collected all these peoples cell phone and destroyed it he will die with explosion; and the other two people who knows the work one is an explosion experts, other one is a writer caught by the drug gang. So, these actors lost all the contact with out side world from the first day they stepped the land. Even they lost contact and surrounded by the fatal danger they still think they are acting a movie and make everything a joke, but later they find that it is not a acting at all. In the end, they helped each other and rescued their partner to go back safely.
To be honest, the comedy in this movie are exaggerated very much and I wouldn’t like to watch it in the very beginning since the actress wouldn’t dieing after shooting and exploding. But after few seconds later I realize it is acting in a movie and I had start follow the story line, then I start to like it. Among the entire portrait I like the explosion experts very much even he seems stupid. I like this portrait because I admire his technique and his responsibility. In my opinion he is the person who is a very responsible and talented.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Protect your eyes
There is a way to reduce the computer screens emission which is detrimental to your eye. It is a recommendation by scientests which proved by many years of research. So, you can try it without any hesitation.
The procedure for tune up:
Desktop->right click->properties->appearance->advanced->Item (window)->color 1(L)choose(other)then adjust as : hue 85 , sat 123, lum 205.
President Barack Obama's inaugural address
By The Associated Press The Associated Press – Tue Jan 20, 5:04 pm ET
My fellow citizens, I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.
Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath. The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because we the people have remained faithful to the ideals of our forebears, and true to our founding documents.
So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans.
That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.
These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land — a nagging fear that America's decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.
Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America — they will be met.
On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.
On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.
We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.
In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of shortcuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted — for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things — some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labor, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.
For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life.
For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.
For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sanh.
Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.
This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions — that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.
For everywhere we look, there is work to be done. The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act — not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together. We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology's wonders to raise health care's quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. All this we will do.
Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions — who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.
What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them — that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works — whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. Those of us who manage the public's dollars will be held to account — to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day — because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.
Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control — and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous. The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our gross domestic product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart — not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.
As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our founding fathers ... our found fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience's sake. And so to all the other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more.
Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.
We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort — even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.
For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus — and non-believers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.
To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect. To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society's ills on the West — know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.
To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to the suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world's resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it.
As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages. We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment — a moment that will define a generation — it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.
For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter's courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent's willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.
Our challenges may be new. The instruments with which we meet them may be new. But those values upon which our success depends — hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism — these things are old. These things are true.
They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility — a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.
This is the price and the promise of citizenship.
This is the source of our confidence — the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.
This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed — why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent Mall, and why a man whose father less than sixty years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.
So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America's birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:
"Let it be told to the future world ... that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive...that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet (it)."
America, in the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children's children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God's grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.
Thank you. God bless you. And God bless the United States of America.
Grandma –I will never forget!
I admire my grandmother (in father side) very much; she is the person who loves me and cares me even more than my parents do. I love her and admire her not because only he cares me, also because her personality. In some way she is my symbol and my first teacher in my life, since I was raised by her form two to five.
My grandmother was kind, hardworking, and quiet. I never saw she even once without doing anything. Since we live in countryside, and my grandparents work as farmer, so everyday morning my grandfather went to field for work, and my grandmother clean whole house and fid all the poultry. Actually she does those cleaning work in the early morning when I am still dreaming. After that, she also took a tool to went to field for work. Of course I can’t finish in a day if I wrote all her daily work.
She is very patientful. Every time when I asked something, she was stopped his busy work and do my favor or explain the thing I had asked.
After my mothers graduation I moved away from my lovely home, and leave with my grandmother. Every time I was revisiting my grandma we both are so excited and didn’t finish our talk night and night.
Three years ago when I was in university, I learned my grandmother’s death. I am so upset about it, and can’t control my tears. Before she pass she require from my parents to won’t tell me until I had graduate, so I learned this bad news after half years later she’s death. Because that time I was preparing for my graduation exams and my graduation paper. She didn’t forget to care me before she goes. I never forget my grandma, she is the greatest person in my eyes, and I never forget she is care to family and other people!!!
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Oh, Dream Again!
In a beautiful, sunny day I had get up earlier than usual and did long personal cleaning from my body to whole apartment. Today I felt everything is so beautiful and nice, and I am so exciting. I had checked every part of my apartment from ground to roof, after I had make sure that there are no any problems later I wear my suits and took my ticket for Copenhagen ,then closed my door to went to station even it was too early to she will arrive. I am standing excitingly in waiting area and looking at all the people coming out, finally, my heart starts to bit faster and faster, I can’t describe my feeling on that time. I couldn't find any words would express my happiness. I was barely standing on line, oh, my feet and my body; I can’t control it any more. I was run to her and her also run to me.
Oh! My neck and my leg, it hearts so much, I opened my eyes with unwillingly .Shit! it was my dream again. I was lying on ground, and there is an apple size red blain on my leg.
Seems unusual and strange
The 28th September 2007, this is one of the important day in my life .It is a day I leave from my country and start my new life in Italy. After nine hours long fly later I had finally landed on international airport Malpansa, Italy. When I come out from the compartment, the mild weather kiss my face genteelly, and sun spread his ray on my whole body just like bunch of people who specially came for welcome me .I stand a doorway a second ,and look through all airport. It was unbelievable; I am in Milan, the home of fashion. I want to shout loudly and say Milan I came finally.
After forty minutes later I came to city centre of Milan. For find my direction and take a short rest I was stand little bit just front of the station .Everything, from construction to people are so different than my hometown ,everyone are so hurry. Suddenly, I saw two boys one is in my age but much taller than me, second one is a kid around 13. At the beginning they walked together, but later the older one slowed his steps, and younger one followed back of a lady in middle age with a small bag. I was figured out what will he do later, so I look at other people around them and a police 20 meter away .All people are so quite, no one had informed the lade .I can’t believe my eyes, and it seems to strange for me. Because I imagine European people are brave, they won’t allow that kind of crime in a public place. But later I realised that it was just one case, can’t symbol for all.
Sunday, January 25, 2009
How to become a good roommate???
1. Respect each other's privacy.
Never enter a room without knocking, answer their cell phone, read their emails or their mail. Remember, this person is your roommate, not your brother or sister.
2. The refrigerator.
Only eat what's your's unless you have clearly specified that certain foods are for sharing. How would you like to come home after a long day of work to find your pint of Ben & Jerry's missing?
3. Keep it clean.
In the kitchen, wash your own dishes, empty the dishwasher and wipe down counter tops. In the bathroom, collect your towels and clothes. Wipe down the tub or shower for stray hairs. Clean the sink after brushing your teeth or shaving. Scrub the toilet after yourself frequently.
4. Pay the bills on time!
Nobody likes to be late with bills. If this is a habit of your's, think about getting a studio apartment by yourself. Why should your roommate be responsible to cover you to protect his or her own credit history?
5. Split the bills or assign bills.
I strongly suggest that all the utilities are not in one person's name.
6. Do not share a phone.
Many disagreements come about with the sharing of a phone. Either only use cell phones or get two separate telephone lines.
7. Keep records.
Pay bills with checks and write what they are payment for in the memo section of the check. If cash is the preferred method of payment, be sure to get receipts with a signature for everything.
8. Live up to your lease agreement.
If you must move before the lease is up, help the roommate find a new roommate up to his or her standards. In the meantime, you should pay your half of the rent even if you are not living there until a new roommate is found or the lease has expired.
9. Discuss overnight guests with your roommate before inviting anyone over.
If your significant other spends a significant amount of time at the home, you may be asked to pay more rent or that you spend your time together at his/her place. Why should your roommate feel like a third wheel in his or her own home?
10. Keep quite
11. When your roommate wants quiet, be quiet.
Doing otherwise is very rude. When your roommate is studying, go chat with your friends somewhere else. If you want to listen to music and your roommate does not, get some headphones.
12. Never wake a sleeping roommate.
Sleep is a valuable resource for a college student, so don't be the reason your roommate doesn't get enough. Be quiet when you're coming in late at night, and respect the need to nap.
13. Do not use your roommate's stuff without permission.
This goes for everything, including food. Similarly, don't snoop through your roommate's things. It can be tempting, but resist the urge.
Be reasonable about visits from friends. Of course you can have friends over, but make sure you are not monopolizing the room. If a friend is going to stay overnight, be sure to ask permission. It's also important that your visitors are polite to your roommate. By the same token, be polite to your roommate's visitors.
14. Don't do anything that makes your roommate uncomfortable.
It's always a bad idea to keep illicit drugs or alcohol in your room, but if your roommate objects, it's an even worse idea. This rule goes for more minor issues as well, including grooming. If your roommate is grossed out when your cut your toenails in the room, then don't.
15. Never gossip about your roommate.
It's tempting to vent about your roommate's annoying habits to your buddies down the hall, but don't. If your roommate finds out (and there's a very good chance this will happen), he or she will be hopping mad. If you have issues with your roommate, talk to your roommate about them. This isn't the easiest thing to do, but it's a heck of a lot more mature than gossiping with your friends.
16. Never spread your roommate's secrets.
Even if your roommate doesn't share his or her secrets with you, you're bound to stumble upon some private and juicy information. Spreading this kind of information isn't just rude: it's bad karma.
17. Do not break your roommate's things.
If you do break something, apologize profusely and pay for it immediately. It also goes without saying that you should not steal your roommate's things.
18. Be prepared to compromise.
Not everyone has the same ideas about day to day living as you do. You can't ask your roommate to change him or herself if you're not willing to change as well.
19. Spend time with your roommate.
Say hello and goodbye, ask them how their day was, and show interest in his or her life. Getting to know the person you live with helps you understand their perspective, and allows them to understand yours. It also makes it easier to deal with problems that you have with that person if you’ve already established a rapport with them. Try to set a time in which you both can hang out at least once a week. Make dinner together, watch a movie, etc. Do something nice for your roommate every so often--make their bed, bake them cookies, or offer to give them a ride somewhere if they don't have a car.
20. Stay flexible.
Understand what’s going on in your roommate’s life, and accommodate them. If your roommate has a big test coming up, you should probably be quiet and let them study. If your roommate is busy and stressed with their job, give them some time and space to relax and unwind. Wouldn't you like your roommate to show you the same consideration?
21. Communicate.
As in any relationship, living with someone requires a great deal of work. Communication is key in making the relationship work well long-term, or even for a short time. If a problem comes up, it's better to talk about it right away than to try and ignore it and let it get worse. If you simply cannot communicate openly and there is tension all the time. Find a new roommate. The stress is just not worth it. You may be better friends if you choose to live separate.
22. Lay down the rules from the beginning
It’s not going to be fun, but if you don’t have this conversation at the beginning, it will be much, much worse later on. Set clear rules for your apartment. You don’t have to legislate every aspect of your lives together, but it’s good to set some boundaries from the beginning. Are you going to buy your groceries together or separately? Will you allow alcohol or drug use? Who is in charge of taking out the trash? What about guests? These are important questions. Take a moment before the discussion starts to think through your preferences. Come up with a list of questions so you can set the rules together.
23. Set a schedule
This is another one of those things that is best done from the get go. Setting a schedule for household chores not only ensures that there will be no question of who’s turn it was to clean the toilet, but it also helps you keep track of your responsibilities.
24. Ask permission
Would you rather the couch be facing the other wall? Want to hire a cleaning service? Plan on holding a loud tribute to your Greek days with a couple hundred friends? Ask your roommate first. Even if you know they don’t care, won’t be home, or it is none of their business, asking makes a huge difference. By running plans that affect the two of you by them, you not only say that you value their opinion, but it makes it clear that you’re aren’t replacing the microwave just to be malicious. People need to feel comfortable in their own space and by altering it without their permission; you’re saying that you don’t want them to feel any sort of ownership. Remember, you don’t have to ask about changing the toilet paper, only the things that really matter—and could blow up later.
25. Proper phone etiquette
I know you love to watch Law & Order and talk to your mom, but it may not be the best way to score points with your criminology student of a roommate. It may seem inconsequential, but not everyone wants to hear one side of a conversation. Another big way to lose favor with your housemate is by having a long-distance boyfriend or girlfriend. The phone may be the best way to keep your relationship going, but believe me, three or four hours of baby talk will drive your roommate nuts. If you have to talk on the phone, be respectful of your roommate. There’s nothing wrong with picking up the phone in the middle of dinner, but if you’re going to stay on the line, step away from the table, preferably into another room.
26. Don’t be afraid to discuss problems
I know, I know, you’ve followed all the rules to this point and things still aren’t working out. You’re the best roommate in the world and it’s killing you. It’s time to talk. Make sure you choose the right time. You don’t want to jump your roommate on the worst day of their lives, but you also shouldn’t put it off forever. Gently explain the source of the conflict and suggest several ideas to alleviate the problem. If you can’t work out your differences on your own, it may be time to bring in an impartial mediator.
27. Never make fun of or belittle your roommate.
A little gentle teasing is okay, especially if you become friends. But keep your opinions to yourself about your roommate's funny little quirks.
28. Be courteous of your roommate’s sleeping habits.
If you are a night owl, keep your noise down and turn the lights down after your roommate goes to bed so you don't disturb them. If you go to bed early, don’t get exasperated with your roommate for their late hours, but at the same time try to find ways that you can sleep undisturbed. The same thing applies for rising in the morning.
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Condescension person I ever seen !
Again that bitc. Now, I am hundred percent sure that there is sme thing missed in her brain, she is a very mawkish thing I had ever seen. I am hardly stand , it is almost three monthes the trouble coming from that slut haven't stopped yet. Everyday there are some thing I need to explain..... I am really getting tired of that bullshit and my hatred to that whor increasing more and more.
Friday, December 26, 2008
Slu. !!!
I try to come down, but it already rich my limit. It was really hard to patient. If I didn't promise to my darling, I would show some temper to that slut. !!!
It was really hard, my head almost exploded, I want to relax, but.....
I really want to say some thing and kick that asshol. !!!
That bitc. gave me a lot of trouble from the very begining to uptill now, I was really don't understand why that slut do that kind of thing.
It was really shame, because of that ass licke. I had wrote bad words in my blog. It was not me, but I am really angry and I want to abreaction!!!
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Bitch!!!
It is long time I haven't write or poste anything on my blog. It is bit shame, because in those days there is a bitch who spread a rumour and agitate my sweet heart with a some shit words. I really want to kill that son of a bitc. !!!
I really don't understand why that slu. do that kind of unmorall thins. I had fully suspect with her humanity and ethnicity, because it is not an action belong to human being especially for ... I really hate that whor. !!!

